Attracting the love you want: Finding the person of your dreams

How to attract the love you want: Finding the person of your dreams, manifesting them into your reality...... NOW

For those of you "cut-to-the-chase" types, it's very simple. I've outlined what you need to do below, but please read on so you can read just how it worked for me.

1. Believe in real, pure, true, undying Love

2. Know there is someone out there that fits you and your life just like a puzzle piece.

3.Write down all the qualities you want:
a. Looks, personality, social status, career field, family background, etc
b. Be as detailed as possible, the more details the better
i. Remember this quote when outlining your details: "shoot for the moon, even if you miss you'll land among the stars"
ii. There is no guarantee you'll find every detail, but just imagine the perfect qualities and hopefully you'll manifest someone close
c. Seriously consider and WRITE down every quality you can think of:
i. Vacation style, parenting style, ambition, how they resolve conflicts, how they handle money, who prepares dinner, who brings in the bread and butter, do you also want roasted lamb with your bread ;). laundry, cars, suburb living or rural? taste in music, hobbies, interests, pets, religion.... I think you get the point.

4. Read over your list, edit when necessary, add to it as often as possible5. Talk with friends, family, anyone who will listen about how you will find this person and believe the words you speak

My story:

August 2007 I had my heart crushed into pieces and my world turned upside down. I was living with my boyfriend of nearly 2 years when he broke up with me out of the blue (to me of course). We were living in a town 25 minutes outside of the metro area and he decided to go hit the city with the boys to drink and dance away any thoughts of the pain he had just caused for me. So I decided to have a bottle of wine, create a myspace for myself and blog about my agony. I was mad, I was so mad at him that night. I put my feelings out there and then started to reflect on my time spent with him. And after considering all that we'd been through together, I realized all the things I didn't like about him. So I started to list the things I wanted out of my next boyfriend. Within days I met a guy in the most unexpected circumstances. I decided to pursue that relationship and I was given exactly what I had asked for in my blog that drunken night. However, he wasn't everything I ever wanted. I am still amazed how he was everything I had specified, I just wasn't clear enough. In my unhappiness with this new man, I decided to keep a journal. It felt good to get all my thoughts out about life and rant about all the intricate details I couldn't necessarily share with the people in my life.

Again, one night, not appreciating this wonderful man i had asked specifically for, I began to outline in great detail my new perspective on what I expect out of a man. I detailed out how we should feel with each other, how we would treat each other, how everything should be. I had dreams, high hopes, of finding this man that was my other puzzle piece to complete me. I'd tell my friends there is a guy out there made just for me. I told anyone I could about my dreams of finding this man tailor made for me. And I found him, I really found him. Doesn't sound so bad, does it? Well let me know if you ever try it and what you find that happens. If you want to go a little further.... I recently read an article about "afformations" which you might want to try. These are affirmations turned into questions formed only in a positive or neutral way. They sort of turn your brain into a search engine, seeking to find the answer, but don't allow yourself to answer them.

For example:
Why am I attracting my true love?
Why is it so easy to be happy with my right and perfect partner?
Why am I so lucky/blessed to find this amazing person that was made for me?
Why do I find it so easy to attract the person of my dreams?

Remember, don't allow your brain to give you an answer, especially ignore every negative thought that may enter. Repeat these daily, any time you remember.

Peace, Love and Positivity <3